# Plan a trip around my actual preferences
A realistic outline built around your actual dates, budget, and pace, not a generic top-ten list.
**Time:** 15 minutes

**What you'll have when you're done:** A realistic trip outline built around dates, budget, pace, and must-haves.
---Generic trip advice is easy to find and mostly useless, because it's built for an average traveler and you're not one. This is about building a plan around your actual dates, your actual budget, and the pace you actually enjoy, not a top-ten list.

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## Do this

1. **Write down your real constraints**: dates, rough budget, who's coming, and any deal-breakers.
2. **Say your pace honestly.** Two big things a day and rest, or fill every hour. Neither is wrong, but a plan built for the other pace will exhaust or bore you.
3. **Ask for an outline**, not a booked itinerary, using the prompt below.
4. **Verify everything before booking.** Hours, prices, and reservation requirements change more often than a plan accounts for.

```
Destination: [where]
Dates: [specific, or a range]
Travelers: [who, including ages if relevant]
Budget: [rough total or per-day, whatever you actually know]
Pace: [packed / moderate / slow]
Must-do: [anything non-negotiable]
Deal-breakers: [anything to avoid, e.g. "no early mornings",
"nothing that requires a car"]

Build a day-by-day outline, not a booked itinerary. Flag anything
that needs advance reservations, and anything I should verify
before relying on it (opening hours, seasonal closures, current
prices).
```

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## Check this before you trust it

- **Every opening hour, season, and closure claim.** These change and go stale fast, and a wrong one can cost you a half-day.
- **Every price mentioned.** Treat it as a rough estimate to confirm, not a quote.
- **Anything that needs a reservation.** Popular spots often need booking weeks ahead; confirm the actual lead time on the venue's own site.

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## If it goes wrong

**The pace doesn't match what you asked for.** Restate it more concretely: instead of "moderate," try "one main activity in the morning, free afternoons, home by early evening."

**It suggests something that's seasonally closed or currently unavailable.** This is common with recent changes and specific reopening dates. Always confirm anything time-sensitive on the actual venue's site before building a day around it.

**The must-do items don't fit the timeline.** That's useful information, not a failure. Better to find out now that the list needs trimming than mid-trip.

**The trip still feels like it's not really "yours."** Add one more constraint: a specific interest, a thing you always regret skipping, a thing you always regret including. The more specific the input, the less generic the outline.

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